Wednesday, October 27, 2010

SMILE:D

I've learned that you can make someone’s day by smiling at them. People are always down, or not as happy as they could be. Some day’s people just need a little recognition. If you thing about it, a lot of people have no desire to smile, some are constantly smiling. I remember when my girlfriend moved to Virginia, the only time I smiled was at work, but of course it wasn't a real smile, only a mask. For me to smile during that time I didn't have to give much effort but i never wanted to try. I wasn’t happy enough to symbolize it.
After being upset almost everyday, i realized that's not how i should go about this situation. Usually the littlest aspects of life make me smile. One day i was Mad/sad at work i had no want or desire to smile. Until my dad walked in saying " Hi, Pretty" with the cutest smile on his face. That day I realized I could be deeply upset, but something as little as my dad's childish smile could make me feel warmth, comfort and happiness.
I smiled the rest of my shift. There was no need for me to continue to be upset. Now i live everyday like this. If i see someone down, i know i need to just simply walk by them, grab there attention and exchange smiles. Chances are they might not smile back, but i guarantee you can also make their day.
I remember seeing a little girl in Polaris, she looked incredibly sad. I kept my distance because i know when I’m upset i don't want anyone especially a stranger to ask me if I’m okay. I exchanged glances with her resulting in a smile. Five minutes later she got up, and walked by me complementing on my sisters purse. Right after i saw her smile at someone. To me a smile is a favor. Everyone should pass it on, kind of like paying it forward. We all have to start somewhere; everyone needs to see a smile, without smiles it would be like a sky with no sun. Taking away the hope for happiness, or to show how happy you are.
Imagine if no one smiled.

2 comments:

  1. I feel the same way. A little smile can go a long way. Ive had people smile at me and its made my day before. It just overcomes you and it helps get you past whats going on. For me,im like you. It feels good smile at people. I like seeing people happy and knowing that I have made a difference. Like you said, some people continue about life not smiling, and are just unhappy. All it takes is for someone to recognize them and smile at them, and theyll feel like the most important person in the world.

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  2. i agree with your essay you can make somebodys days just by smiling

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